Before you get into a relationship, pray and meditate.. sit down and think about what you want in a partner.. don’t just jump into a relationship because it seems like everyone is in one, or because you are tired of being alone or you NEED someone to make you feel complete on the inside.. only God can do those things. Be willing to wait for the right partner. You get yourself in a lot of trouble when you rush. It pays to wait. If that means waiting for a few months, a couple of years.. WAIT. Because God has someone made just for you. And it may even help to get off social media for awhile and find yourself.. build yourself up so that when that right person does come it’s not based off what you see on the internet but based on truth, reality and the discussions you had with God through his word. I know it’s cliche but you must learn how to love yourself and know who you are before you build a strong foundation with someone else.